In most cases the court that grants a dissolution of marriage will also divide the marital and nonmartial property between the parties. It is also possible to have a “divisible” divorce in which a court in one state may have jurisdiction to grant a dissolution of marriage, but not have jurisdiction to divide the marital property. Whichever court has jurisdiction over your property is determinative of which state’s law applies in dividing your property.
In Missouri it is the responsibility of a court that has jurisdiction over your property to divide only “marital” property, while giving each spouse his or her “nonmarital” property. Thus it becomes very important how a particular piece of property is classified.
In Missouri, all property acquired after the marriage is “marital” property, and all property acquired prior to the marriage is “nonmarital” property. There are of course exceptions enlisted within the statute. For example, property acquired by gift, bequest, devise, or descent is considered “nonmarital” property even if it was acquired during the marriage. There are a few other ways property could be “nonmarital” too.
So generally speaking, if its “nonmarital”, the property is yours alone, and if its “marital” it is subject to division, although even that doesn’t necessarily mean divided equally in half. In Missouri, property is divided equitable, not equally. There are many ways to keep a piece of marital property whole during a dissolution of marriage, one of which is by you and your spouse agreeing to do so. To be fair, this usually means giving something up that you would otherwise have a marital interest in.
There are too many nuances to discuss regarding the division of property during a divorce in this type of a forum, but please understand that this stuff is not as cut and dry as it may appear on its face. What I have provided is just a high level overview of some of the basic concepts you may expect to encounter when dealing with property during a divorce. You should always speak to your attorney about your unique situation. What happens to your house if it is titled in only one spouse’s name? What happens to your retirement account? What happens if the couple has been separated for the last 5 years? All of these questions can be answered by your attorney.
Although Missouri courts have recently made it easier for pro se parties to gain access to forms needed to obtain a dissolution of marriage, they didn’t make the laws any easier to navigate or understand. And if you figure that the nice clerk down at the courthouse will assist you in drafting your pleadings, then maybe you aren’t aware that the clerk, librarian, and your friends and family that do not have a license to practice law are prohibited from giving you such advice. That is because it is a crime to practice law without a license to do so.
Although it is well within your rights to represent yourself during a divorce, think hard about what that entails. Learning the law, drafting your own pleading, filling your own pleadings, contacting your spouse and negotiating with him/her, gathering your own evidence, defending yourself, being your own advocate in court… If you are going through a divorce you are probably dealing with enough as it is. My advice? Hire an attorney. If you cannot afford an attorney, ask an attorney about providing unbundled legal services to make it at least affordable to review your self-prepared pleadings to ensure they conform with the law. Remember that in Missouri, the court’s order as it affects distribution of marital property is a final order which may not be modified at a later date. In short, if you mess it up there are is no cleaning it up.
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